I recently got a text message from a friend asking me about dildos, particularly about whether softer dildos were really better for anal. I guess I wasn’t sure how to answer, so I thought about it for a bit.
To start with, I had to think about why you’d use a dildo for anal in the first place. Well, the main thing is comfort. Anal penetration requires a certain amount of lubrication and a dildo that is too hard or too big can make it more uncomfortable and even painful. Softer dildos can be much more comfortable since they provide more cushioning and therefore provide a much more pleasurable experience.
But then I started to wonder: Is there more to it than just comfort? Turns out, there is! While softer dildos do provide a more comfortable, they also provide a better grip. This means that the dildo won’t slip out or move around too much, making it easier for you to really get the most out of your anal experience.
I also considered the fact that softer dildos might make it easier to find a dildo that fits your body. Generally speaking, softer dildos come in a wider variety of shapes and sizes, meaning you can find one that’s perfect for your body. And when it comes to anal play, finding the perfect fit can mean the difference between a good or bad experience.
Finally, I thought about the longer-term benefits. Soft dildos tend to wear out less quickly over time, meaning they will last you longer. Plus, they are also much easier to clean since they don’t have any sharp edges or corners that can trap dirt and germs.
All in all, I think softer dildos are certainly better for anal. Not only do they provide a more comfortable experience, but they also provide a better grip, come in a wider variety of shapes and sizes, and are much easier to clean and last longer. Plus, they just look better, which is always a plus!
Moving on from the basics, I started to consider the various types of dildos out there. There are those that have an easy-fit shape and those with a curvy design. Others come with a textured surface for more pleasurable penetration and some even have vibration settings.
Then I looked into the safety aspect of things. Whenever you’re engaging in anal play, it’s always important to make sure that the dildo is made of a non-porous material that won’t cause any harm. Plus, you should also avoid using dildos that have sharp edges or corners, as these can be much more likely to cause injury or infection.
I also realized that it’s not just about picking the right dildo but also about using it correctly. You should always start slowly and not rush your way in. This way, you can get more used to the feeling and gradually start inserting it further. And of course, make sure to use plenty of lubricant.
Softer dildos certainly come with plenty of benefits, and keeping these points in mind can help make your anal experience ideal. Just remember to be patient, use plenty of lube, and pick the right dildo for the job!
Now that I thought about the basics, I started wondering how to use the dildo after insertion. Conservation usually isn’t very pleasurable, so that’s not really an option. However, there are a few things you can do to really make the most out of your experience.
One thing you can do is to move the dildo in a circular motion. This way, you can get to the core of your pleasure zones more easily and really get the most out of your experience. You can also use slower thrusts to really maximize on the pleasure.
Another thing you can do is to experiment with different sizes and shapes. This way, you can find out what works best for you and really make the most out of your experience.
Then I thought about incorporating toys. Aside from dildos, there are plenty of other toys that you can use to enhance your experience. There are vibrators, anal beads, butt plugs, and other toys out there that can all be added to the mix for added pleasure.
But then I wondered if it’s safe to combine these toys together. Generally speaking, it’s best to use toys one at a time, as this will help you stay in control of your experience and prevent any accidents or discomfort.
Finally, I thought about using sex furniture or accessories. Things like bondage restraints, sex swings, or even pillows can all be used to enhance your experience even further. Many of these items can also make it easier to achieve certain sex positions or accessorize the experience with a bit of role-play.
All in all, softer dildos are certainly ideal for anal play. Not only do they provide a more comfortable experience, but they also make it easier to find the perfect fit, last longer, and are much easier to clean. Plus, there are plenty of other things you can do to help make the most out of your experience, such as experimenting with different types of toys, sex furniture, and accessories.