I had never heard of an assgasm before, but a week ago I got challenged by one of my best friends to try it. After doing some research, I realized what an assgasm was and decided to go for it.
For those who don’t know, an assgasm is an incredibly intense orgasm that involves the anal area. It’s actually quite similar to a regular orgasm in that it can be triggered via stimulation of the anus and lower rectum.
First things first, the materials. You’ll need a comfortable spot to lay, a dildo or butt plug (if you’re new to the experience, I’d recommend the latter as it provides a gentler start), and lubricant – preferably a water-based lube. The lube helps ensure everything is safe and smooth.
Next, get relaxed. Spend some time listening to soft music, using body massagers, or just sitting in the dark and breathing deeply. This helps to relax the mind and the body, and makes the experience even more pleasurable.
Once you’re relaxed, it’s time to get started. Start with gentle strokes around the anal area, using lube and your fingers. Knead your skin in a circular motion, this helps the muscles to relax. Once you feel ready, you can move on to using the dildo or butt plug. Start slow and increase the intensity gradually. Deep, slow thrusts are key.
The last step: Enjoy! You may feel contractions and tingling sensations. These are all normal and should only increase as you continue. As you continue, you might even find yourself trembling and shaking from the pleasure. If you’re really feeling it, you can even increase the intensity of your thrusts and rhythm.
One of the most important aspects of assgasm is communicating with your partner. If you’re not comfortable talking about your experience, it will be harder to reach the full assgasm. Talk to your partner about what you need and what you’re looking for. Knowing what you want and need makes all the difference.
For extra intensity, you can also try different positions. Experimenting with different angles and depths can give you an even more intense assgasm.
Adding toys to your assgasm experience can be really fun as well. From anal beads to glass dildos, there are lots of fun toys around that can make it even more pleasurable.
Communication is key throughout the entire experience. Talk with your partner about what you need and what resonates with you. This will make your assgasm that much more pleasurable.
Now that you’ve reached the peak, it’s time to come down. Take some deep breaths and enjoy the afterglow. Don’t forget to clean up when you’re done.
In addition to an assgasm, you can also try out analingus. In this experience, your partner stimulates your anus and lower rectum with their tongue. This is done by licking around the anus and then slowly moving inwards. The tongue technique stimulates sensory nerves that are normally dulled during regular anal sex.
Once you and your partner have warmed up, it’s time to get to business. You can start by using your fingers to explore the area, then add lube. Once your partner has identified the erogenous zones, they can start licking and massaging them. This can be a very intense experience when done correctly.
Analingus isn’t just for the receiver – it can be extremely pleasurable for the giver as well. Just like with regular oral sex dolls, switching between the tongue and lips can increase pleasure and intensity. Plus, as long as adequate lubrication is used, analingus can be a very enjoyable and satisfying experience for both partners.
Analingus can be an excellent addition to assgasm. The combination of the two can lead to incredibly intense and powerful orgasms. To make it even more enjoyable, experimenting with different textures, temperatures, and lubricants can be incredibly rewarding.
If you’re looking for an even more intense experience, you can experiment with anal fisting. Again, safety and communication should be top of mind here. Start slowly by inserting a finger and making sure your partner is comfortable, then gradually add more fingers. The thumb is often used to stimulate the G-spot during anal fisting.
Aside from just the physical sensation, anal fisting can also be a powerful emotional experience. It can help you and your partner bond on a deeper level and explore each other both physically and emotionally. Just make sure, as with any type of sex, to engage in safe and consensual play.
No matter if you’re just starting out or experienced with anal play, assgasm and analingus can be incredibly pleasurable and gratifying experiences. Of course, as with any type of sex, safety should be the number one priority. Make sure to use plenty of lubricant and communicate with your partner throughout.
Remember that you’re in charge of your own pleasure. Believe in yourself. Have the courage to explore. And, above all, enjoy yourself.