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how to talk timid wife into using sex toys

I remember my friend Dave telling me that his wife was too timid when it came to exploring sex toys. I couldn’t believe it, because when the two of them were together, they were practically dynamite.

So I asked Dave what his plan was for getting his wife to try out sex toys, and that’s when he told me he had no idea. He was at a total loss.

I knew I had to step in to help. I figured the best way to start was to make sure Dave’s wife felt comfortable with the idea. So we started off slow and played around with bondage gear and fantasy role playing. Just simple things that we both enjoyed doing.

Once she was completely comfortable and relaxed, I suggested introducing sex toys. I thought this would be a great way to add some fun and adventure to their bedroom, and of course, spice things up in the process!

In the beginning my suggestion was met with resistance, but I kept at it. I simply reminded her of the pleasure and satisfaction that can be gained from using sex toys. I told her that this was something that could take her and Dave’s relationship to the next level, sex toys and that the rewards were well worth the risk.

With a bit of coaxing and reassurance – and reminding her that this was something that would be just between the two of them – she eventually warmed up to the idea. She started with some simple vibrators and now – several years later – sex toys are now a regular part of their bedroom adventure.

I always find it amazing how something such as sex toys can bring a couple closer together. By playing with sex toys, Dave and his wife explored and uncovered new ways to pleasure each other. It’s an awesome feeling to know that I played a tiny part in helping Dave and his wife find that. I guess that just goes to show how powerful and meaningful sex toys can be!